According to the Indian census reports,
more than 15 million seniors are living alone in India. Particularly in Tamil
Nadu, 1 in every 10 seniors is living alone. Sometimes, a senior living alone
is a choice and sometimes life just happens in that way for them.
Whatever the reason, these lonely twilights
in the lives of seniors should not make them feel like they are being left
behind.
With a little bit of grit and commitment,
seniors can prove that they can live a quality life just like any other age group.
In fact, many seniors enjoy living all by
themselves. They like the thought of being independent and adore their own
moments.
That’s only one side of the coin. There are
cases of increased loneliness in seniors, depression in seniors and many other
mental health issues as a result of living alone.
Whatever train you are on, being alone is a
choice. If an elder is choosing to be alone, there is no room for loneliness or
any other mental health issues. However, they still need preparation to avoid
safety and security-related issues.
Give it a Thought
●The first and
foremost step is thoroughly analyzing if ‘living alone’ is a choice or a
consequence.
● If it is not a
choice, there is nothing wrong in availing alternative senior living options like
assisted living and senior community living.
Enrich Your Independence
● Once the decision
is made, it is time to prepare yourself physically and mentally for the
upcoming days of being alone and how to make the most of them.
● Take measures to
enhance the support system around you in order to enrich your independence as
long as possible.
Make Your Home Senior-friendly
● Aging in place is a
widely recommended concept in the western world and India is slowly striding
towards its adaptation.
● The concept
recommends evidence-based guidelines on the overall housing needs of seniors
that include floors, furniture, kitchen, bathrooms, bedroom, lighting, living
areas and security systems.
Every day, Try to Be Better than
Yesterday
● Be it your health,
body, mind or your surroundings, always try to improve.
● Everyday progress
in these aspects not only delay the symptoms of aging in general, but also
significantly contribute to your independence for a long-term.
Work on Your Relationships
● Being alone does
not mean staying away from everyone. Work on your relationships with your
family members. You need them more than you think and so they.
● Develop your close
circle of friends and make sure you are enthusiastic and respect your
relationship with them.
Never Forget Your Refills
● If you are on
medication, keep a track on their availability and get the refills beforehand.
● Leverage the apps
and home care service providers to get reminders on your medical refills and
medicine delivery at home.
Security on Check
● Seniors who are
living alone can be vulnerable to security threats. Keep your doors and windows
locked, always!
● Install security
systems that include emergency alarms, automatic doors, CC cameras around the
house, and a proper home security system.
Try Something New
● The newness in life
is what makes it interesting and exciting. Always keep yourself in the
direction of excitement that is derived from trying something new!
● Learn guitar, join
a club, become a full-time volunteer. If you have a heart to explore, there are
many things you can do as a senior citizen.
Your Healthcare Support System -
● No matter how
independent you are, you cannot afford to ignore the fact that age is catching
up and you have to play your part to delay it.
● Have your medical
care system in place in the form of home healthcare providers who offer a wide
range of medical and personal care services at the comfort of your home.
If you are a senior who is in dilemma of
living alone or not, here are some frequently asked questions about seniors
living alone which might help.
- What’s
the difference between being alone and being lonely?
Being alone
is a choice you make in order to make your own decisions and live the life of
your choice.
Being lonely
is when you feel you are being left behind and there is no one to talk or stay
with you.
- Is it
good to live alone in post-retirement?
It
completely depends on the person and his/her situation at that point of life.
There is no one-size-fits all in deciding whether living alone is good or notpost-retirement.
- How can
home healthcare support seniors who are living alone?
Home
healthcare offers extensive support for seniors who are living alone by
providing nursing care and personal assistance for seniors.
The support
includes help in daily living activities, bathing, grooming, light
housekeeping, light meal preparation, and accompanying seniors in morning or
evening walk, and so on.
If independence is your marker in life,
living alone can be a perfect choice. However, everything has its pros and
cons. Only you know if you have got what it takes to live alone, how much and
how long you can take it.
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